Monday, April 6, 2026

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I grew up a preacher’s kid, and I’ve been around a few churches. I was saved at the age of 16.  Listening to pastors and deacons praying in church can be one of the most intimidating things for a younger Christian.  I’m going to endeavor to take you on a journey of how my view of prayer changed because I’ve heard a lot of prayers from other people.  Some have lengthy flowery prayers with big fancy words.  I understand that from a certain perspective, but there was a time when the way I looked at prayer simply changed.  God wants us to communicate with Him often.   If you spend time in the Psalms and I have spent a lot of time, there you will find King David is the most vulnerable person you will ever hear praying and singing to God.   

 

Psalm 51:16-17

 

“You do not desire a sacrifice or I would offer one.   You do not want a burnt offering.  The sacrifice you desire is a broken spirit.  You will not reject a broken and repentant heart, O God.”  

 

See years back in my college days I went to this place called Disc Go Round and I bought my first Margaret Becker cd.  That’s when I discovered the song that changed the way I viewed prayer and talking to God.  Years before in 1989 she wrote this song called Honesty and it is for everyone who has sat in church and heard the fancy prayers and thought “I don’t understand how to pray because I can’t wrap my head around all these strange words.”  I’m here to tell you along with Maggie B that you don’t need all that.  What you need is an open and contrite heart before God.  Sometimes we have to come to God in prayer with our broken mess.  

 

Her song says this.  

“Tonight, by the glow of the firelight 

You found the courage to speak your mind

And tear down the walls 

you’ve been hiding behind 

You spoke of your struggle 

And you cried from the pain 

You spoke of your failure 

And then you turned in shame

You said, you knew you’d never be alright.

 

God’s not afraid of your honesty 

He can heal your heart if you speak honestly 

Humble sorrow and honest cry 

He will not pass by no.”

 

See, those words changed me.  It made me realize that I didn’t have to sound all fancy when I prayed and made me realize God wants me to talk to him as I would talk to a friend.  Yes, I’m to be respectful because He is almighty God but he doesn’t want me to try to pretend to be something I’m not.  

 

Philippians 4:6-7 

 

“Don’t worry about anything; instead pray about everything.  Tell God what you need and thank him for all He has done.  Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand.  His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.”  

 

In Luke 18:9-14 there is a story Jesus tells about prayer between the Pharisee and the tax collector, and I’ve always related more with the tax collector because of what he did.  

 

“But the tax collector stood at a distance and dared not even lift his eyes to heaven as he prayed.  Instead, he beat his chest in sorrow, saying, ‘O God be merciful to me, for I am a sinner.’”  

 

Even on my best day I’m a screw up and yet God wants me to pray to Him and he listens.  Let your guard down don’t try to be something you’re not.  Speak to God honestly.  He created you He sent his Son to die for your sins and be raised to life and He loves you.  

 

I want to end this with one of the most important verses you will ever learn about prayer.  

1 Peter 5:8

 

“Give all your worries and cares to God, for He cares about you.”  

 

That verse tells you when to pray.  When you’re worried and concerned.  And then it tells you why.  Because He cares about you.  

I rarely ask for prayer but if you feel led to pray, please pray for Becky and I as we are getting married this coming Saturday.  Please pray that we would be the people God wants us to be. 

 

Honesty by Margaret Becker 

Humble yourself by Mylon Lefevre and friends

Praying man by Petra

 

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