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I grew up a preacher’s kid, and I’ve been around a few churches. I was saved at the age of 16.  Listening to pastors and deacons praying in church can be one of the most intimidating things for a younger Christian.  I’m going to endeavor to take you on a journey of how my view of prayer changed because I’ve heard a lot of prayers from other people.  Some have lengthy flowery prayers with big fancy words.  I understand that from a certain perspective, but there was a time when the way I looked at prayer simply changed.  God wants us to communicate with Him often.   If you spend time in the Psalms and I have spent a lot of time, there you will find King David is the most vulnerable person you will ever hear praying and singing to God.   

 

Psalm 51:16-17

 

“You do not desire a sacrifice or I would offer one.   You do not want a burnt offering.  The sacrifice you desire is a broken spirit.  You will not reject a broken and repentant heart, O God.”  

 

See years back in my college days I went to this place called Disc Go Round and I bought my first Margaret Becker cd.  That’s when I discovered the song that changed the way I viewed prayer and talking to God.  Years before in 1989 she wrote this song called Honesty and it is for everyone who has sat in church and heard the fancy prayers and thought “I don’t understand how to pray because I can’t wrap my head around all these strange words.”  I’m here to tell you along with Maggie B that you don’t need all that.  What you need is an open and contrite heart before God.  Sometimes we have to come to God in prayer with our broken mess.  

 

Her song says this.  

“Tonight, by the glow of the firelight 

You found the courage to speak your mind

And tear down the walls 

you’ve been hiding behind 

You spoke of your struggle 

And you cried from the pain 

You spoke of your failure 

And then you turned in shame

You said, you knew you’d never be alright.

 

God’s not afraid of your honesty 

He can heal your heart if you speak honestly 

Humble sorrow and honest cry 

He will not pass by no.”

 

See, those words changed me.  It made me realize that I didn’t have to sound all fancy when I prayed and made me realize God wants me to talk to him as I would talk to a friend.  Yes, I’m to be respectful because He is almighty God but he doesn’t want me to try to pretend to be something I’m not.  

 

Philippians 4:6-7 

 

“Don’t worry about anything; instead pray about everything.  Tell God what you need and thank him for all He has done.  Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand.  His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.”  

 

In Luke 18:9-14 there is a story Jesus tells about prayer between the Pharisee and the tax collector, and I’ve always related more with the tax collector because of what he did.  

 

“But the tax collector stood at a distance and dared not even lift his eyes to heaven as he prayed.  Instead, he beat his chest in sorrow, saying, ‘O God be merciful to me, for I am a sinner.’”  

 

Even on my best day I’m a screw up and yet God wants me to pray to Him and he listens.  Let your guard down don’t try to be something you’re not.  Speak to God honestly.  He created you He sent his Son to die for your sins and be raised to life and He loves you.  

 

I want to end this with one of the most important verses you will ever learn about prayer.  

1 Peter 5:8

 

“Give all your worries and cares to God, for He cares about you.”  

 

That verse tells you when to pray.  When you’re worried and concerned.  And then it tells you why.  Because He cares about you.  

I rarely ask for prayer but if you feel led to pray, please pray for Becky and I as we are getting married this coming Saturday.  Please pray that we would be the people God wants us to be. 

 

Honesty by Margaret Becker 

Humble yourself by Mylon Lefevre and friends

Praying man by Petra

 

Short

 

Short

 

We’re not promised tomorrow.  Life is short.  I make it a point each day to tell my fiancé Becky that I love her.  The first day we met she told me I mattered to her and she loved me.  This week I was relaying this story to her.   Christian singer Sandi Patty had a relative who was slowly dying and she was learning to cherish every moment with him, and she taught herself to say to him each day.  “I love you, today.”  Emphasis being on the word today because we aren’t guaranteed tomorrow.  I’m 49 and my fiancé is 45 we’re getting married late in life and that timeframe is not lost on us.  We try to make the most of our time together.  I’m approaching my upcoming wedding with a certain attitude, and I’ll do my best to explain it.  Growing up my dad introduced me to the music of Don Francisco.  He sang a song about marriage that says, “Love is not a feeling it’s an act of your will.”  Each day you must choose to love the person you’re married to.  Too many people end a relationship because they no longer feel like they’re in love.  Had it happen to me.  I know going into this that each day I must choose my spouse.  We can have good and bad days, but I have to choose her regardless of my feelings.  DC Talk said it best in their song “luv is a verb.”  

 

“Pulling out my big black book

‘Cause when I need a word defined, that’s where I look

So, I moved to the l’s quick, fast in a hurry 

Threw on my specs thought my vision was blurry 

I looked again but to my dismay 

It was black and white with no room for gray

You see a big V, stood beyond my word

And Yo, that’s when it hit me, that love is a verb.”

 

WWE general manager Adam Pearce does videos online and he always ends them with this sentence that we all need to remember.  “Love somebody today.”  You don’t know what kind of struggle the people around you are dealing with, but God calls us to love.  I’ve said before that a lot of the friends I have are because they took the time to be nice to me and I remember that.  

 

Romans 12:18 is a verse I try to live my life by.  I don’t always get it right, but I try.  

“Do all that you can to live at peace with everyone.”  

We don’t know who our life is affecting but we need to love people and treat them as better than ourselves.  I said it in church one Wednesday night because it’s true.  “We talk a lot of smack for people who almost fall over putting on underwear.” Don’t think so highly of yourself.  Treat people with love and kindness wherever you go.  If you need a reason why I’m about to give it to you in two verses.  

Galatians 6:9-10

“So, let’s not get tired of doing what is good.  At just the right time we will reap a blessing if we do not give up.  Therefore, whenever we have the opportunity, we should do good to everyone, especially to those in the family of faith.” 

 

This past week Becky told me something and it shook me.  I don’t blog like I used to.  Years back I placed a lot of stress on myself to have something to say every week when this was an online blog.  I got criticized by people after my divorce and had to heal, it kept me from saying anything.  When it was sent as an email to people it started being returned with no explanation.  I blog on rare occasions now.  But one of Becky’s friends told her to tell me, “He hasn’t done a video in a while.”  I honestly thought no one was paying attention when I did them.  What I often say is that if just one person is drawn closer to God by something I have said then I have accomplished what I set out to do.  I had to stop and pray and tell God if I was going to do this again, he would have to provide something to say because I didn’t have it.  I’m no one special I share what God lays on my heart.  What happens after that is completely up to God.  I pray before I post stuff that God would use it to glorify himself.  This is not about me and if that’s what you focus on that’s not the point I’m trying to push you back to the cross of Christ.  I simply show up and share.  I’m nobody special.  

 

Meant to be by Steven Curtis Chapman

Love Revolution by Natalie Grant 

Middle of a Miracle by Emerson Day

Light Up the Sky

 

Light up the Sky

 

At Second Baptist Church we’ve been slowly working through the book of John and I do mean slowly.  I was talking to Becky, Wednesday night after church about some of these verses we had been going over in church.  I’m going to share the first five verses quickly and then get back to that conversation.  

 

John 1:1-5

 

“In the beginning the Word already existed.  The Word was with God, and the Word was God.  

He existed in the beginning with God.  

God created everything through Him, and nothing was created except through Him. 

The Word gave life to everything that was created, and His life brought light to everyone.  

The light shines in the darkness and the darkness can never extinguish it.”  

 

Wednesday night I was telling Becky, at my lowest point when I got most depressed I had been praying often for a purpose and I can tell you God used the rising of the Sun each day to reassure me that if the Sun was still shining He wasn’t done with me and there was a reason to go on.  

 

In verses 1-5 it talks about the Word and that’s another name for Jesus and we find that confirmation in verse 14.  

 

“So, the Word became human and made his home among us.  He was full of unfailing love and faithfulness.  And we have seen His glory, the glory of the Father’s one and only Son.”  

 

This blog has always been about hope being found in God’s Word.  But you see the Bible is alive and to read it you interact with Jesus because he is the Word in human form.  We all need hope and light and Jesus is that.  There’s a song by a group called The Afters called Light up the Sky.  Sometimes we need to stop and look up and remember that the very God who created us and the world around us is very much a masterful artist.  This is what the song has to say about all this.  

 

“When I’m feeling all alone with so far to go

The signs are nowhere on this road

Guiding me home

When the night is closing in 

Is falling on my skin 

Oh God will you come close

 

You light light, light up the sky 

You light up the sky to show me that you are with me.  

No, I can’t deny that you are right here with me.”  

 

John 1:5 said, “the Light shines in the darkness and the darkness can never extinguish it.”  Some of you need to take a step back from your busy life and look to the sky and see where God is allowing the Sun to shine each day and remember he’s not done with you.  

 

Also Casting Crowns took a hymn and made it more of a modern song in 2009 to remind us of all this.  

 

“One day when Heaven was filled with his praises 

One day when sin was as black as could be 

Jesus came forth to be born of a virgin 

Dwelt among men, my example is He

Word became flesh and the light shined among us

His glory revealed.

 

Living, He loved me

Dying, He saved me

Buried, He carried my sins far away 

Rising, He justified freely forever

One day He’s coming oh glorious day.”  

 

We just went through a time of Christmas where the people of Israel were expecting a savior in a time of darkness, and it was proclaimed by Angels to lowly shepherds.  Each day God gives us a sunrise and lights up the sky to give us a reset element for a new day and a fresh start to remind us there is still Hope and Hope is a person named Jesus Christ.  

Psalm 19:1

“The heavens are telling the glory of God; and their expanse is declaring the works of his hands.”

Philippians 1:6

"For I am confident 0f this one very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus.” 

I want to flip the script a bit for a moment.  I work at night.  I have told you, a few times during the blog to go outside and look at the sky.  When most of you get to see the sun rise and set, I see the night sky and due to the city lights, I can sometimes see the moon and stars if McDonald’s could just tone down those Golden Arches a tad bit, I could see more.  But I used to live in the country, and we could see the night sky for miles laying on a trampoline.  I long for the dawn and the rising of the sun and getting home from work.  But God has created a masterpiece day by day for us to see in the sky and He’s not done with you.  I don’t know what you’re going through but I do know you are loved more than you realize.   

 

Light up the sky by the Afters

 

Glorious Day by Casting Crowns 

 

The Word by Sara Groves